Prince Abhaya's Question
Prince Abhaya approached the Buddha with a question designed to trap him in contradiction. He asked: "Would the Tathāgata say words that are unendearing and disagreeable to others?"
The Buddha's response revealed the sophisticated framework we still need today. He explained that he would speak factual, true, and beneficial words—even if unendearing and disagreeable—but only when he had "a sense of the proper time for saying them."
Why This Matters Today
- Social Media Toxicity: The framework prevents harmful speech while preserving the ability to share difficult truths.
- Context Collapse: The "proper time" criterion addresses how digital platforms strip away contextual cues.
- Viral Misinformation: The factual and beneficial criteria create barriers against spreading false information.
- Echo Chambers: The framework encourages speaking truths that may be "disagreeable" to one's audience when beneficial.